Im sure you've all heard of they saying
"There are plenty more fish in the sea"
If not heres a quick explanation:
Men are like fish. and when it doesn't work out with one guy, there will always be many more to choose from.
But then my friend expanded on this idea and said
"Sure there are many fish in the sea, but i caught a jellyfish"
This provoked some inner reflection, and what she was saying was very true.
Because when you're with that one special person, while you may still have guy friends and talk to them, ti so different. You see them all so differently, where those guy friends are mates you high five/ hug/ have fun with them . Whereas your special someone is someone when you see them your heart lifts, and as long as you're with them everything is better, and when you hug you never want it to end.
This shows the clear division between "that" guy and your guys friends, even to the point where they are a different species.
Also that Jellyfish are delicate gentle creatures, ad so is your loved ones, where you want to look after this delicate treasure and nurture them :) Also that they are usual, and "different" from a crowd, unlike a more common fish.
However. . . . jellyfish can sting. . . . and hurt you badly to the very deepest parts of your heart.
As the conversation progressed she said something else.....
"Some people have bigger ponds than others"
Which again was another thought provoking statement.
Because you cant deny it there are features of a girl that make them more attractive to the opposite gender thus causing their ponds and the number of fish to increase.
These features include
- Physical beauty
- Optimistic attitude
- Good socialising skills
- Large web so social connections
- Materialistic belongings
- Interests
- Open personality
- Charisma
- Sense of humor
and the list goes on...
(however the things above are simply generalisations)
Therefore the more of these quality you obtain the larger your pond grows, maybe even become the ocean. But remember int he ocean there are sharks, so the larger your pond the more likely there will be eels, sharks or crocodiles, those guys that will get your heart and shush it :(
So be careful, while the number of fishes grow, so does the predators.
Let us hope there is a massive storm :) then all the ponds will grow and eventually flow into one another :) so everyone has the same number of fish to choose from :)
Happy fishing my girls <3
