In a relationship with.........

Well thanks to new advances in technology in particular telecommunications. In the old days people found out about relationships through general observation and word of mouth... however today all you have to do is change your fb relationship status from " single" to " in a relationship with ________" and BAM! everyone knows.

The next day at school EVERYONE knows and they seem to know everything about your new new partner..... and being in an all girls school your partner will develop a few online stalkers =) JKS!

The thing is... well i considering changing your fb relationship status a BIG thing. cos basically once you post it EVERYONE will know and people withh begin to judge. Im not sure if this is only in girls schools, but you have to get ready for constant teasing ( nice teasing ofc). the other thing is those who DONT personally know your partner will look on his/ her profile and JUDGE! its true... honestly it doesn't matter if they are you best friend its human nature to " judge" and they may not act upon these judgements but they will still have these judgements at the back of your mind.

Example 1
Say your new partner... looks a bit gangster... and has like 1000 fb friends.. and their like posts on his wall on getting wasted last night....
JUDGEMENT
your friends will immediately think your a stupid girl and have made the wrong decision an that this guy is a tool and going to play you.

Example 2
say your partner is not very... visually appealing... but say goes to a expensive private school
JUDGEMENT
That your dating the guy for his money and status and your w a gold digging whore

Example 3
Your partner is the cutest most perfect guy
JUDGEMENT
How did shes get him? shes so not deserving...

So make sure your ready to be judged...

Another thing is when there status CHANGE...

Honestly i confess when i see someone in and out of relationship that last less than a week i got to judge.... and question their commitment...


This is the new PDA ( public display of affection) of this technological age =)