Single life.

So I haven't blogged in a while simply because I havent had time :( I honestly cant remember the last time I stayed home ALL DAY and didnt have to study hahahaa.

It really sad so many times I come up with all these good ideas to blog about but i just dont get the time and I forget about them :(

Anyways , this blog Ive been meaning to write for a while.

So for those that know me Ive been single for nearly 3 months, while most of you are probably like pftt thats nothing ( im not disagreeing with you ) but Its the longest Ive been single in a long time, before all this dating stuff.

So the last couple of months let me reflect on my past relationships and how i see relationships now.

In my past blogs you would remember that I wanted a guy to be "lovable" while thats still true , Ive realised that relationships arent as idealistic as I had originally hoped.

I guess you could say I have "upped" my standards? simply because as much as a miss cuddling and going on dates , im quite enjoying single life, and now im just so busy, if i were to get a boyfriend I would have to sacrifice quite a lot.

1. Chivalry: While getting walked to the train station is nice, even just a concerned "text me when youre home so I know youre safe"
2. A gentleman: Always offers to pay - Now I dont mind paying at all, but they should OFFER.
3. Effort: put in effort to talk to me , or just to make me happy in general
4. Naturally easy to talk to

As I read the above criteria, i feel Its the criteria for a 15 yr old HAHAHAHA maybe I went backwards in maturity, but the main message is I want someone to TRY to put in a lot of effort.I know what its like to put ineffort and get nothing in return, so i really respect guys who put in effort, and Ill give them a decent chance

But i dont mind it if im brozoned and you dont do any of the above things hahaha



Anyw