Gossip Girl Life Lessons

As this afternoon I was rewatching Gossip Girl, and Laughing over the spite between Blair and Serena - and how it can vanish in an instant and they become best friends again. How they can do the unforgivable- yet they are still forgiven... thats hollywood for you...

But then I pondered on this thought and realized its not so unrealistic.....

Personally I know / have been involved in several fights/ conflicts / betrayals, and out of most of them we still turn out friends again- some times our friendships are stronger than before.

Then I began to think about it this way...

If my boyfriend slept with my best friend or my bestfriend slept with my boyfriend

And i thought about it- i would take my friend back. . . .noway the boyfriend

why?

I have no idea.... but the thought of never talking to my bestfriend again seems impossible

I guess thats why friendship is so important.

Dear all my friends :) I love you all <3 always="" being="" for="" here="" me.="" p="" thankyou="">

Meet me half way

Meet me half way right at the boarder line . . . . thats where im going to wait for you.

Just before i Start this post I wanted to note that im still getting several page views a day even through i rarely blog :-O So thanks to my loyal followers :D

I Have to say from my previous relationship Ive learnt several things , made several mistakes.

One of them was conflict resolution, I used to just bottle up all the hurt , just cry myself to sleep and stuff would never get resolved until one day i just snapped, and i went I cant do this hurt thing anymore, and basically said its my way or the highway. I think this is one of the core factors why we ended it.

I realize at the end i was just being plain unreasonable ,so im sorry, and i wont repeat my mistakes.

Now im trying something new with you , im trying to talk it out with you trying to be rational. I give you a day to calm down, but after that i expect you to meet me half way and talk about it  , work on a solution. Not to seem dramatic or anything , but pretty much this is a key feature to ensuring the longevity of this relationship.

Im starting to here you say some of the things my ex did. . . . and thats okay, but this time i want to work these out find a compromise , i tried so hard, i poured my heart out.... trying so hard to resolve this, and you return to your stubborn ways - not even replying.

So today i sat in and AIESEC induction and I LOVED IT i forgot how much Id missed my societies over the summer :) When uni starts my time is going to get even more scarce uni, societies, work, friends, and i think thats something youll need to understand. Thats why i started going out with you, because youre a busy person and im a busy person - and i thought it will all work out.

So I lie in bed at 6am a little sad with a sick nervous feeling in my stomach because i know we need to get our shit together- and quickly

A chinese movie

there was a movie once that my mum told me about and i shall share it with you

Its basically about a married couple, the husband treated the wife so well, but one day the wife leaves the husband for a younger more "interesting" man.
When she leave her husband he is heartbroken, however he still loved the wife, so he writes a book for the new man, a book with the very details of his wife, whats her favorite foods, what shes allergic too and what to do when shes angry.

And that is love.

I find when you love someone enough you cant get angry at them you can get temporarily annoyed but not angry. Because you dont want to fight with them, being angry at them probably hurts you more than them .