Thought of you

Today I opened my 2011 Diary, ans i thought of you.

There were so many memories of us there. . . .
There was that drawing you did, the one of the fish eating me .

I remembered how happy that drawing made me.

I see your timetable glued into the back of my diary.

But I close the book.

They were lovely memories . . . .

that is all.

The Rebound.

We'll heres my first attempt at resuming blogging >__<

So the rebound.

A rather negative term, reckless even.

Linked to the stupid, heartbroken and selfish.

So what is a rebound?
"the kind of relationship that's simply happening in order to get over one that recently ended"

How do you know if you are rebounding?
This is one question Ive asked myself many times and here is what ive come up with . . .

A little quiz to see if you are rebounding
1. has it been less than 3 months since your last break up
2. Were you the person "dumped"
3. Do you compare your current partner to your previous?
4. Is your current partner your first " opportunity"

If you answer "yes" to more than one of those , i guess rebounding could be a reality.

However. . . . .

From previous stories and experiences, most commonly it is the GIRL who gets into a new relationship faster.

Why? Simple. answered by simple courtship.

Men approach women, so if a charming, handsome guy asks you on a date, who would say no?
However men need the emotional stability and courage to approach a girl.

So that explains that trend.

So the bottom line , how do you really know?
you don't.

But this is how i look at it . . . .
I always think to myself , would i be happier if i was with someone else atm, not necessarily your ex, but anyone any other guy you may know. If you answer is no , i believe you've made the right choice

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