Friend Theory

Everyone in their teenage years, develop or have an event that changes them that makes each individual create their own "friend outlook" . These vary depending on personality and experience.

But everyone devises several methods of how. . . .


1. How they make friends

Some will refuse to approach people, and let people come to them to seek friendship, while others will go out to meet friends and go out of their way to meet new people

My outlook : I go and look for friends and approach people, because this way i can be assured that i have not missed meeting a possible best friend in the future, and theres nothing wrong with being friendly even if you never see that person again. However this can have negative effects such as people using you, and not making any real close friends.

2. How they place friends in importance

Friends like nay aspect in life take up time, the more time you give the more friends- simple concept yes. SO the "popular" people dedicate a lot of time and effort to their friends

My outlook: While i do place friends on high importance, i don't really spend that much time on them, i go to outings, but only talk to a few people regulatory on msn or phone. But if they really need me ill be there for them.

3. How much they trust friends

Some friends spill their secrets or some never divert the conversation on their personal lives and focus more on their friends.

My outlook: My trust is hard to earn, several events in my life have made if difficult for me to trust people. . . so very few people know my deepest thoughts VERY FEW. .. .  and i often don't let a single person know EVERYTHING. except my special someone

4. How many friends they have

Some see if there is a "click" and if not the friendship is dropped, while other continue to put in effort to continue the relationship even if it requires a large amount of effort hence having a large amount of friends.

My outlook: IF i don't get along very well with someone, ill still respect thema nd help them out, but i wont open myself to them they wont know my inner thoughts.


5. What they expect from their friends.

Some expect them to talk ot them all the time, or if they call them out to the city for them to come out straight away, while other want nice gifts and lots of long chats over coffee.

My outlook: I dont think i expect too much from friends, i want them to listen when i have something i really need to say, and make some effort to see me when they can, and maybe something small for my birthday.

So what is your Friendship Outlook?

and just remember it might not be the same as your friends. . . .

Twilight

So if you're a twilight hater screw you , i like it! im not a crazy fanatic but something about those movies makes me excited and i never want it to end.

Anyways today i watch breaking dawn part 1, and it made me contemplate several things and the inner workings of the female mind, and i reflected on the thing sin the movie that made me cry and smile.

1. Let girls win, Its strange but us girls find so much satisfaction in "winning" , just being irresponsible or plain difficult, but having the guy say okay, and give in makes us happy, i cant describe it. . . its not ebcuase we really WANT it our way, i think its more of a power play thing. it can be about the most stupid things. . . like where to eat or what icecream to buy.

2. How easy it is to get "convinced" by your other half , they can convince you and make you believe the most stupid things, and when things go wrong you're left in a mess, because we all want to live in a world of make believe

3.When something goes wrong, girls dont want guys to stress, or think it through of the most logical explanation or get as much help as possible, we're silly and just want them to hold us and say it will be okay. . .  not try find a solution, we need them there for us.

I gathered this from the film that so many people seem to hate :( these are all generalizations ofc and dont apply to all girls.

Ive decided im going to watch the last twilight mnovie in the cinema, i dont care if i have to watch it alone, or fly to brisbane to watch it wiht my bestie , im watching it!